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Dear PB Readers,
Hollywood often makes movies about nothing but, this past
weekend I saw a great movie about a very important topic.
The movie called COACH CARTER debuted this past weekend and
is one of the most powerful movies I have seen in years. Ken
Carter, played by Samuel L. Jackson, grew up in the tough
northern California town of Richmond. With poverty and drugs
a normal way of life, Ken Carter found basketball as a way
of staying clear of trouble. A former star player for the
local Oilers High School, the movie opens with Ken being recruited
to come back to his old high school to take over the coaching
reigns.
Coach Carter immediately shows the boys respect by calling
them "sir" and demanding they pay appropriate respect
to him and their fellow team-mates. The year before Ken took
over the team, they won only 4 games out of 30 and were a
team lacking discipline, fitness and direction. Before the
boys could play for Coach Carter, he demanded each student
AND their parents sign a contract of expectations. Each athlete
had to agree to maintain an academic grade point average of
2.3 (the state only required 2.0), sit in the front seat of
their classrooms, wear a tie on game days, and be in the gymnasium
five minutes before practices began. The real Coach Carter
was more interested in providing an opportunity for the boys
to go onto college, and more productive lives, than winning
basketball games.
Discipline and a talented basketball playbook helped the
boys to start the season with 16 consecutive victories. When
the interim school marks came back to the coach it was apparent
the players were more focused on basketball then their academics.
Amazingly, Coach Ken Carter padlocked the gymnasium and refused
to allow the players back into the gym until their marks and
commitment to school improved. Coach Carter's actions attracted
national visibility and many of the local parents and community
were opposed to Carter's strategies. Unfazed by the negative
publicity he was getting, Carter held out until his students
changed their focus. The movie emotionally captures the importance
of a coach in the lives of young people and the incredible
opportunity we have in society. The boys improved their marks
and the padlock on the gymnasium was lifted. The previously
undisciplined kids from Richmond High School went to the State
Championships for the first time ever and lost to the best
team in the country by just one point. Six of Coach Carter's
boys won college scholarships and all of the community witnessed
the importance of goal setting and planning for the future.
Two years later Coach Carter spent three days using a kick-scooter
(you see teenagers using these around parks) to travel from
Richmond, California to the state capital in Sacramento. Carter's
goal was to raise awareness of the deteriorating standards
in his local Richmond Hill School. His effort raised much
needed government money and won him recognition of one of
the ten most influential people in the state. Whether you
are a coach, a parent or just someone who wants to be inspired
by the small guy who does the right thing, COACH CARTER is
a great viewing. See more about the real COACH CARTER at www.coachcarter.com
Our goal each week is to be a positive source of information,
knowledge and attitude. Personal Best is fully aware of the
number of negative sources you are exposed to each week. Our
world has an equal number of positive people and stories and
I would much rather hear about the greatness being done by
coach Ken Carter then a drug dealer who is selling a negative,
dead-end life. Please consider signing up family, friends
and co-workers for our free weekly newsletter at www.personalbest.ca
or emailing me directly at barrie@personalbest.ca. Have a
great week.
JAN 17th, PB HIGHLIGHTS
* DR. MAXWELL MALTZ QUOTE ON SUCCESS
* NEVER ASSUME (HUMOUROUS TRUE STORY)
* BARRIE HEADED TO GERMANY (FOLLOW HIS TEAM)
* KEEPING YOUR RESOLUTIONS ALIVE - BY SHELDON PERSAD
* REMEMBER IT'S ALL UP TO YOU!
* DON'T MISS THE FEB 4TH AQUAFINA TALK WITH LEITH DRURY
* PERSONAL BEST OPPORTUNITIES
DR. MAXWELL MALTZ QUOTE ON SUCCESS
"Often the difference between a successful person and
a failure is not the one that has better abilities or ideas,
but the courage that one has to bet on one's ideas, to take
a calculated risk - and to act."
NEVER ASSUME!
The following is a true story
A man was flying from Seattle to San Francisco. Unexpectedly,
the plane stopped in Sacramento along the way. The flight
attendant explained that there would be a delay, and if the
passengers wanted to get off the aircraft, the plane would
re-board in 50 minutes. Everybody got off the plane except
one gentleman who was blind. The man had noticed him as he
walked by and could tell the gentleman was blind because his
Seeing Eye dog lay quietly underneath the seats in front of
him throughout the entire flight. He could also tell he had
flown this very flight before because the pilot approached
him, and calling him by name, said, "Keith, we're in
Sacramento for almost an hour. Would you like to get off and
stretch your legs?" The blind man replied, "No thanks,
but maybe my dog would like to stretch his legs."
Then picture this: All the people in the gate area came to
a complete standstill when they looked up and saw the pilot
walk off the plane with a Seeing Eye dog! The pilot was even
wearing sunglasses. People scattered. They not only tried
to change planes, but they were trying to change airlines!
Remember... things aren't always as they appear.
LOOKOUT GERMANY, HERE WE COME!
Two years ago I did a talk and told people I could prepare
virtually any of them to successfully complete an Ironman
Triathlon Race (2.4 mile swim - 112 mile bike - 26.2 mile
run) in less than 8 months. Twenty-four athletes signed up
(ten of them absolute novices) and everyone hit the finishing
line in Austria. Last year two dozen more people signed up,
and everyone hit the finishing line in Sweden.
A few months ago, we put a call out for a new crop of people
to try Ironman Germany. Currently three dozen people are registered
and training for Ironman Germany in Frankfurt July 10th, 2005.
Virtually everyone of the three dozen participants work full
time, have to balance family, kids and their own personal
goal of hitting the finishing line of one of the world's toughest
endurance events. Over the next few months we will follow
the strategies that some of these busy (but absolutely normal)
people employ on their way to Ironman Germany.
SHELDON PERSAD SAYS
Recently a client of mine came in for his training session
and his first remark was, "You would not believe how
many people were at my gym on the weekend." Yes, an all
too familiar occurrence, a fitness facility the weeks following
new years is a crowded place. In this situation I tend to
think of people in two categories, 1) never exercised before
but willing to start and 2) those just getting back into it.
In both situations, I tip my hat. Awesome! Starting a new
program, modifying a behaviour, changing a time schedule to
fit exercise into a day are not easy things to do at the best
of times. My concern however is the timing of when the goals
are set and how they are set.
Personally I have never believed in, nor set a new years
resolution. I usually encourage beginners to start a new plan
weeks before the Christmas holidays to start developing good
habits (before the feasting beings). Next, we try to break
the year into smaller manageable time frames. What tends to
happen is the newly found diligence to exercise begins to
wane after about 4 - 6 weeks. Several studies have shown that
30% of new exercisers will stop after about 3 months. After
6 months this number increases to 50%.
Right now we are in the first month of the year. Did you
set a resolution to exercise and get healthier in 2005? Wonderful
if you did, however why not break things up into manageable
segments. Was your goal to exercise 3 times per week? Don't
wait until new years to modify your objectives. What will
your objective be for February, March? Perhaps to exercise
4 times per week? As Dr. Marvin told Bob (Bill Murray) "baby
steps." Short term goals help us achieve long term objectives.
Sheldon Persad is a Senior Partner in Personal Best, a high
performance Consultant to many Olympic athletes and teams
and a proud husband and father. You can direct questions to
sheldon@personalbest.ca
REMEMBER - It's All Up To You!!!
* Your success depends upon you.
* Your happiness depends on you.
* You have to steer your own course.
* You have to shape your own future.
* You have to educate yourself/
* You have to do your own thinking.
* You come into this world alone.
* You go the grave alone.
* You are alone with your inner thoughts during the journey
between.
* You must make your own decisions.
* Are you doing all you can to be a success?
UPCOMING MOTIVATIONAL DAYS
The next Aquafina Speaker Series is Friday, Feb. 4th at 7pm
at Robert F. Hall High School. Last year's most popular speaker
Leith Drury (PhD candidate) will share her research in EMOTIONAL
INTELLIGENCE (an Essential Asset for High Performance). Put
Fri., Feb 4th in your daytimer for a free, motivational evening
at our next Aquafina Talk. More details at the C3 website
at www.c3online.ca
PB OPPORTUNITIES
1. If you are looking for a keynote speaker for your company
or awards celebration consider hiring Barrie for your special
event. From 30 minutes to a full day presentation, Barrie's
thousands of pictures and stories are guaranteed to entertain
and motivate. If you are interested email barrie@personalbest.ca
2. Florida Warm Weather Camps. One week, March 12-19th, and
two weeks, April 16-23rd and 23rd-30th. Join Barrie and international
coaches for a week of instruction and motivation in Clermont,
Florida. Details at www.personalbest.ca
HAVE A GREAT WEEK AND TRY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN AT LEAST
ONE OTHER PERSON'S LIFE!
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